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PAINFUL SEX – HOW TO OVERCOME PAINFUL SEXUAL INTERCOURSE

If intercourse is hurting you, you are less likely to want to try for a baby, and for good reason; sex just isn’t feeling good anymore. Even worse, you may go ahead and try to ignore the pain, just so you can try to get pregnant which may make the underlying cause worse.

Painful intercourse, known as dyspareunia, is a common condition, estimated to affect up to 20% of women. It is most commonly experienced by postmenopausal women, though is not uncommon before. Up to 2% of women experience regular pain during intercourse. For as many as 15% of women, painful intercourse may occur up to a handful of times each year. Painful intercourse can affect both men and women, though is more common in women.

Symptoms of Painful Intercourse

Symptoms of Painful Intercourse

Pain can occur both during and after intercourse. There are a number of possible causes of painful intercourse, and so there are various symptoms associated with this condition. Pain can be felt:

  • at the point of penetration
  • during sex
  • during orgasm
  • after sex

The timing of the onset of pain may help to determine the cause. Make note of any patterns, and write down any details that could help your gynaecologists to diagnose the underlying condition.

Depending on the underlying condition, you may find the pain to be:

  • sharp
  • sudden
  • like a burning sensation
  • throbbing
  • dull
  • causes extreme tenderness
  • like menstrual cramps

Descriptions of the pain will also be useful for diagnosis, so keep note of the type of pain, and the duration.

There are a number of potential causes of painful intercourse, so the more information you are able to give your gynaecologist, the sooner they will be able to rule out some possible causes.

Possible Causes of Painful Intercourse

Possible Causes of Painful Intercourse

Pain during and after sex can be felt in the vagina or deeper in the pelvis.

Vaginal pain could be caused by:

  • a sexually transmitted disease such as chlamydia or gonorrhoea
  • an infection such as thrush (yeast infection)
  • vaginismus -­ this is the involuntary and often painful tightening of the vaginal muscles at the time of attempted penetration
  • menopause -­ the hormonal changes experienced during menopause can cause vaginal dryness and decreased sex drive
  • a lack of arousal -­ vaginal dryness can cause pain during and after sex
  • genital irritation or allergic reaction to spermicides, latex or hygiene products
  • a psychiatric problem ­- stress, anxiety and depression can reduce the libido and cause painful intercourse. A history of sexual abuse could also cause anxiety around sex and intimacy that could lead to painful intercourse

Pelvic pain during and after sex could be caused by:

Some women feel nervous about visiting a health professional about painful intercourse.However, the pain could be your body’s way of warning you that something is wrong. If left untreated, painful intercourse can decrease sex drive, reduce enjoyment during sex and increase anxiety before, during and after sex. Pain during intercourse should be resolved prior to trying to conceive, to rule out any infection and underlying condition. 

If you experience pain during or after sex, you should discuss this with your gynaecologist. Your gynaecologist is best placed to diagnose the cause of the pain, and advise on treatment options.

You should make a note of any other symptoms that could be related to your condition, such as:

Be sure to discuss these symptoms with your therapist, as they may help to give a proper diagnosis. There are many natural options to help with any of the above symptoms, but again, first it is important to have a diagnosis rule out infection or underlying reproductive health issues before deciding the best course of action.

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3 Comments on PAINFUL SEX – HOW TO OVERCOME PAINFUL SEXUAL INTERCOURSE

  1. I have pain during sex…the pain is like when u hold urine until it hurts in the bladder… and I have a lot of discharge n it’s white in colour…sometimes I feel the pain even after sex…I’m married n I’ve lost the sex appetite due to the pain

    • Hello Anne,

      You will need to carry out some tests basically to find out what is going on. You may need to visit a hospital or reputable lab for that purpose. You need to find out what is causing the pain and the discharge. When the causes are known, it will be easy to get a treatment. You can also join our whatsapp group to learn more about free home remedies for your condition on https://chat.whatsapp.com/AnxVYqKIb14J1qJIRqKXZX

  2. Shirley Likoko // December 11, 2017 at 9:20 PM // Reply

    I only have pain during and after sex… And I also have this pain at my lower, started feeling all this after I gave birth 7 months ago. Help!

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